during english lesson, i was suppose to draw my dream house, when i drew my dream living room plan halfway, i stopped. mrs tan told us how she know her husband. it starts with.... mrs tan likes tall guy, but her husband was not a tall guy. only 16x cm. so how did they... it was when they were together, her husband was good in english. so he will like always write cards to her. cards are like send to her office and not give her personally. he also gave mrs tan books. her first book was "too close too... someething" couldnt remember. the front page, where the author writes the name, was full of her husband's words.. that how from 16x cm can become 17x cm or even 18x cm. she also added, he played the guitar during some thingy at the office. she said he know how to play the guitar, cause he was the leader. i am sure she was saying cell group leader. that where it becomes 19x cm. about the book, her main point was... communication is important. if starting arouse with physical contacts, and communication was lack... that when, cold wars appear, situation get worst and diavorce could even happen.